One of the biggest questions that have ever crossed every
man’s mind is how to have a big wedding and not feel incapacitated by funds.
Let’s face the fact; it’s not easy finding a soul mate, your
soul mate these days.
So when you finally find that one girl that makes your world
go round, it’s a big deal to make your wedding to her one of the biggest
wedding ever known to man.
They say the wedding day is usually a specially made day for
the bride but we men know this is not totally true. The day of our wedding is
also a special day for us (come on, men also dream about this day).
You’ll understand this better if were a man and it took you
40 years to find a girl that truly loves you for who you are and willing to be
with you forever.
Every lady has had the perfect dream of how her wedding day
would be like, so it is good for the
groom to get his game on on that day and
make that dream come true.
So is it possible to have a big wedding with little or no money?
Looking at it from afar, it is absolutely impossible but with
these hacks I’m about to share with you now, it is very possible and you don’t
need to incur debt from your not so rich grandma or even get a loan from the
bank to make this come true.
SO HOW DO YOU HAVE A CELEBRITY WEDDING ON AN EXTREMELY LOW BUDGET?
1.
SAVE
AHEAD
Yes, you heard me right!
Even if it a little you’ll need to save money some money at
least if not for anything for the running around and preparation.
I’ve had people most especially women tell me their wedding
is coming up in few months and they don’t have anything absolutely a dime for
preparation and this sound really absurd to me pardon me if this offends you.
Why?
What happen?
What have you been doing all these while? are the questions
I ask when I hear these words from their mouths even though I know the whys and whats I’m asking can’t bring instant solution.
Having a wedding is just like starting a company. I mean
every new company needs a kick start capital before investors can come in with
their monies to save the day. So yes, I said it. You need to gather some money
first for the running around and planning or else you’ll incur debt and remember
our blog title is not talking about incurring debt while having a dream wedding.
No!
I’ll talk more on what the money will be used for in my next
point.
2. SELL ASO EBI
I know what you’re about to say “why should I sell aso ebi?”
It’s the ladies that do this.
Yes, I agree with you, it is the ladies that own this part
but I must tell you this is a part (every man) you should also embrace
especially if you want the big wedding.
Now, listen to me attentively.
The purpose of you selling this aso ebi is to make double
profit if not triple profit and here’s how you can go about it. Remember you
said you are having a celebrity wedding so cheap materials should be out of
this but expensive material that you can buy at a relatively low price in
wholesale.
You know it’s all about the numbers. So let’s say you want
to invite 500 guest to the wedding based on the agreement with your fiancé.
How much is the quality cloth material you want to buy on
wholesale per persons? Let’s say it’s a royal blue material that goes for 10k
per individual, you can sell it at 20k to the invitees coming to your wedding.
If you make 10k per persons imagine how much you’ll get if
you sell to 500 invitees {500 * 10,000}.
That’s how much?
I hope you really get the gist?
Now add 5 million to the money you’ve saved up. Can you see
that’s a lump sum? (And please don’t forget that it’s your money saved up
you’ll be using to buy these clothing materials)
3. HYPE, HYPE, HYPE
If you live in Nigeria and you don’t know how to hype by
now. I must say you are on a long ting (speaking in Dbanj’s tone) until you
learn these act.
Obviously nothing no longer sells in Nigeria without hyping,
everything product you see around you is a product of hyping especially
products from the entertainment industry (movies, music videos and the rest,
name them.)
In case you don’t know what hyping is by now I’ll explain in
a jiffy.
You see hyping is a
way of making anything you produce or involved in look way bigger and fancier than
it looks.
Look around on social media especially on Instagram,
Nigerians practice this (HYPE) a lot. Choosing special spots to take pictures,
taking pictures with celebrities and making it look as if they know them but
they actually don’t.
Also lending or renting material possessions like bags,
shoes, clothes and cars from people just to make sure they look like
celebrities (This is all part of hyping).
Even though this is bad most times, let’s not forget the
advantages because I’ve heard a few testimonies come out of this, testimonies that
some people who actually practiced this married celebrities, landed big advert/marketing
deals and so on.
So if you ask me what we need hyping here for? We need it to
make our wedding look big, way bigger than any wedding done so far. This best
way to do this is to hire a brand counselor or brand strategist, it depends on
what you call them.
This people know how and what to do to push your wedding day
glitz to every Nigerian’s face. And if you can’t afford one obviously because
you’re saving every dime you have now for something else, learn it and do it
yourself (it will add to your C.V).
4. FEED ON THE RELATIONSHIPS YOU HAVE OFFLINE
If you’ve been joking with the relationships you have with
people, you might want to be serious now because yaaaaay your wedding is coming up
in the next few months and you need all the support you can get even the ones from
your enemies quote and unquote.
Just in case you don’t understand what I mean by creating
relationships and you can’t rap your head around it, you can read my revealing
article on how poor people think and howRalph Bamigboye thinks.
This article will expose you to everything you need to know
about establishing relationships and why it is extremely important for everyone
to maintain them.
So you might ask me here “why do I need to feed on the relationships
I have around me now?”
Yes, I use the word “feed” purposely because it’s the only way I can perfectly explain this aspect. I want you to see all the times you were creating relationships as the sowing season, now is the harvesting season and we all know what happens in harvesting season, no plant with fruits are left unturn.
Yes, I use the word “feed” purposely because it’s the only way I can perfectly explain this aspect. I want you to see all the times you were creating relationships as the sowing season, now is the harvesting season and we all know what happens in harvesting season, no plant with fruits are left unturn.
Feed of these relationships now by asking for all the helps
you can get. This is the only perfect time you can do that!
Do you need a fabulous serene environment for the wedding?
Maybe like a Yatch and a friend has one. Ask him for permission to use it. Do
want to have your wedding on a private beach and your uncle has one, ask him
for permission to use it.
What about exquisite cares?
Talk to your friends that have many of them at their
disposals.
Please do not ignore this point due to pride; it does go a
long way if you really want everything to turn out well.
5. FEED ON THE RELATIONSHIPS YOU HAVE ONLINE
Are you a blogger or you just to know people online, now is
the time to feed on the relationships you have with them.
Call, email, send DM’s to them and ask for their help.
What do you need their help for?
Remember point 3? This is where your online cliques will
come in handy, all you just need is to tell them what you want and they’ll do
it, in fact overdo it.
Bloggers like Jide the Blogger owner of Ogbongeblog.com and OluGlowville owner of Glowville.net had fellow bloggers hype their weddings and
proposals (that everyone thought the weddings were bigger than they looked).
So talk to your cliques to hype yours for you to the extent
that it will be the talk of the town. After all, the main reasoning why you are
doing this is to feel special.
That’s it!
My 5 easy steps to having a celebrity wedding!
But please do this for me, don’t just follow these steps,
own them and I bet you you’ll get its unbelievable results.
Waiting to hear from you…
Cheers in advance!
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